I suppose you can learn it on your own, but I've never had to be alone.
Not in my entire life. Part of having a twin, you know.
But, honestly, the best way that I have found and seen from others is to have the people around you help you discover who you are underneath the baggage.
Isn't a difficult task easier to complete with the help of your friends? Or are you the type to stupidly plod along and then get flattened because you tried to do it alone?
Yes, they love us and they want what's best for us, the same way we feel about them. Friends *generally* help each other without a thought of what payment they would get.
It's not always the case, but that's the difference between a good friend and a selfish asshole.
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Date: 2022-11-05 03:31 am (UTC)Not in my entire life. Part of having a twin, you know.
But, honestly, the best way that I have found and seen from others is to have the people around you help you discover who you are underneath the baggage.
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Date: 2022-11-05 07:34 pm (UTC)I don't know. Shouldn't it be my responsibility to sort myself out?
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Date: 2022-11-07 10:55 pm (UTC)Isn't a difficult task easier to complete with the help of your friends? Or are you the type to stupidly plod along and then get flattened because you tried to do it alone?
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Date: 2022-11-09 02:11 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-11-12 01:04 am (UTC)Gods know that I wouldn't have asked Vox Machina to actively join Vax and I just for revenge, but they offered to help us anyway.
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Date: 2022-11-12 10:23 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-11-12 10:24 pm (UTC)It's not always the case, but that's the difference between a good friend and a selfish asshole.